Article,
Still trying to figure out how to explain this without complicating myself!
I do not like to speak on politics but analysing the current political scene of the nation would have been more palatable.
So here goes...a few reasons girls lie to you that they are dating when they are not.
1. They just don't like you
To some ladies it is just a polite way of telling you they aren't interested in you, so just backoff! No they don't have time for your flirtations and forced conversations. When she likes you she would reach you without any coercion from you sir.
2. She respects your feelings.
she has told you NO, but you keep insisting, even when she tells you she is not in a relationship but just isn't interested, so she lies cos you have refused to take no for an answer and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings or ego. And basically cos she doesn't see you as anything more than a friend.(friend zone got you good)
3. She might think you have ulterior motives
This might not be necessarily true or accurate, but somehow some ladies think that when your first approach to telling her you like her is firstly asking her "do you have a boyfriend? " she would think what you want from her is just some sort of fling that would be hindered by the fact she has a boyfriend.
4. Using you to catch trips.
Some might tell you they are dating someone else just for the fun of the chase, to see how interested you are. Pray not to come across this bunch, just plain mean, but don't assume all ladies do this.
Basically dude, most of the time its cos she wants nothing to do with you.
-she just wants you to keep off
-not call or text her over and over
-she wants you to understand that the heart wants what it wants and at the moment it don't want you.
-she wants you to stop coming on too strong...(match break small.) Easy does it.
-give her space
-respect her 'imaginary ' boyfriend.
But being a man isn't easy, really, hats off to those who get turned down and still have morale to toast again, most women would never understand ....it really is not easy, having to state your feelings only to find out it ain't mutual.
However when next you think she is lying about seeing someone else, the above reasons might just be one of many other possible reasons why she lied.
Be strong guys....you would find your missing rib, she would form small, but it is you that has her "juju" it must catch her.....but please know when you aren't wanted.
P.S
Someone might want to ask if I am dating anyone, YES O! I AM!
❤TAD
WHY GIRLS TELL YOU THEY ARE DATING WHEN THEY ARE NOT
So this topic was a setup, I set myself up big time, and I realised a little too late and decided to just go ahead with it and accept the challenge I threw myself.Still trying to figure out how to explain this without complicating myself!
I do not like to speak on politics but analysing the current political scene of the nation would have been more palatable.
So here goes...a few reasons girls lie to you that they are dating when they are not.
1. They just don't like you
To some ladies it is just a polite way of telling you they aren't interested in you, so just backoff! No they don't have time for your flirtations and forced conversations. When she likes you she would reach you without any coercion from you sir.
2. She respects your feelings.
she has told you NO, but you keep insisting, even when she tells you she is not in a relationship but just isn't interested, so she lies cos you have refused to take no for an answer and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings or ego. And basically cos she doesn't see you as anything more than a friend.(friend zone got you good)
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| Lol....this meme cracks me up, but I don't completely agree |
3. She might think you have ulterior motives
This might not be necessarily true or accurate, but somehow some ladies think that when your first approach to telling her you like her is firstly asking her "do you have a boyfriend? " she would think what you want from her is just some sort of fling that would be hindered by the fact she has a boyfriend.
4. Using you to catch trips.
Some might tell you they are dating someone else just for the fun of the chase, to see how interested you are. Pray not to come across this bunch, just plain mean, but don't assume all ladies do this.
Basically dude, most of the time its cos she wants nothing to do with you.
-she just wants you to keep off
-not call or text her over and over
-she wants you to understand that the heart wants what it wants and at the moment it don't want you.
-she wants you to stop coming on too strong...(match break small.) Easy does it.
-give her space
-respect her 'imaginary ' boyfriend.
But being a man isn't easy, really, hats off to those who get turned down and still have morale to toast again, most women would never understand ....it really is not easy, having to state your feelings only to find out it ain't mutual.
However when next you think she is lying about seeing someone else, the above reasons might just be one of many other possible reasons why she lied.
Be strong guys....you would find your missing rib, she would form small, but it is you that has her "juju" it must catch her.....but please know when you aren't wanted.
P.S
Someone might want to ask if I am dating anyone, YES O! I AM!
❤TAD
Enter your comment...well written love..ur dating???hmmm a gist I haven't been told yet
ReplyDeleteYou to like amebo.
DeleteNice one TAD,my first attempt on reading your blog. Let me go through the rest, now i'm feeling criminally minded.
ReplyDeleteThanks Mantim, feel free
DeleteThanks Mantim, feel free
DeleteAs a guy, I don't think one should be that blind as to choosing who to ask out. Before asking you out, I would have made some other moves that would confirm the 'possibility' of a mutual feelings.
ReplyDeleteSome guys want to play toasting a babe for months, believing that the fact she is dating doesn't mean she can't have a side guy. Like a spare tyre, you know. Lols.
Long and short, if I see a girl I can have a thing with, I'd know. This way, stress for me is minimized.
Very sharp guy
DeleteIts different strokes for different folks.
ReplyDeleteI try to look out for mutual feelings before making my move. However its sad ladies keep lying this way. Beautiful and expository piece.
Real sad, but we wish the men understand it like you do.
DeleteClap for yourself, so ya dating?
ReplyDelete*clapping *
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